Richard
Ford is one of the few authors that’ll I’ll buy any book he writes as soon as
it is published in hardcover. I’m particularly fond of the Frank Bascombe
novels, Ford’s protagonist from The
Sportswriter, Independence Day,
and The Lay of the Land, written in
the first person by a “familiar old friend” from New Jersey. I feel I know this person as I knew Updike’s Harry
“Rabbit” Angstrom. Frank is four years
younger than I and Rabbit was ten years older.
But the times recounted by these characters are of my era. No wonder I’m so familiar with the landscapes
of their lives. And it is interesting that both Updike and Ford had declared
the end of their Angstrom and Bascombe novels with the completion their
trilogies, only to come out with one more, as if the character told the writer
he had something else to say. I
certainly thought the Bascombe works had come to an end when he wrote Canada, a fine novel.
But
primarily it is Frank’s voice, the way he thinks, that connects with me -- plaintive,
sardonic, ironic, perplexed, now somewhat resigned, and with a wry wit.
The
hardcover edition of Let Me Be Frank With
You is also a treasure to hold, a three piece binding, nicely designed including the jacket, printed on an off white
stock, with headbands and foot bands, but as with most hardcover editions nowadays,
no longer smyth sewn – instead it’s a “perfect bound book” in a hard case. In my book production days, this would be
library-unacceptable, but I suppose we should be grateful that the hardcover
book still hangs on, pre-digital-historical relic though it may be.
I
confess I ordered this as soon as I heard about it without knowing the
details. It’s by Richard Ford and it’s
another Frank Bascombe book. That’s all
I needed to know. It turned out not be a
novel but instead four lengthy short stories, loosely held together by
Hurricane Sandy and the theme of aging.
The
leitmotiv of the Hurricane is actually central to the first story, “I’m Here.” At
the request of an old real estate client, Arne Urguhart (Frank became a real
estate agent after he was a sportswriter and an aspiring novelist), he goes to
the Jersey shore to see what’s left of the house he sold Arne,
actually the house that Frank lived in with his ex-wife Ann.
In
the second story, “Everything Could Be Worse,” he is visited in his present
home in Haddam, the town where Frank began his journey in the The Sportswriter, by a Mrs. Pines, who
has become displaced by the Hurricane, and injured as well, a cast on her arm, and
has an unexpected urge to see the home in which she grew up and in which a
terrible crime was committed. Frank
invites her to tour the house and her story unfolds.
From
there we segue to “The New Normal” where Frank goes to visit his ex-wife who is
now a resident of a high-end retirement community, with progressively
deteriorating Parkinson’s disease, one she even blames on the Hurricane as a “super-real
change agent. It was in the air.
The
concluding story says much about the underlying theme of the entire collection,
“Death of Others.” Here he goes to visit
a friend who is literally at death’s door, living in a home he’s occupied for
scores of years, being attended to by hospice. Frank was once his neighbor.
The dying man, Eddie Medley, makes a startling confession to Frank. The
Hurricane in this story hangs in the background on Eddie’s silent TV, a program
surveying the damage.
I
was prepared to be disappointed by this book as it is not another FB
novel. Independence Day, the second FB novel, which won the Pulitzer
Prize, is probably his best. Just the
opening sentence of that one expresses his love of the geographic territory: In Haddam, summer floats over tree-softened
streets like a sweet lotion balm from a careless, languorous god, and the world
falls in tune with its own mysterious anthems. In his new short story collection, such a
sentence would seem to be impossible.
Why? Because FB has aged. He sees life and Haddam differently now.
So,
while being disappointed that this was not another novel, if one concentrates
on “the voice” and the themes, perhaps it actually works better as a number of
loosely connected short stories. I think
that genre feels so natural for what Ford has to say. What Frank says about “love” could be said
about his life — Love isn’t a thing,
after all, but an endless series of single acts. And so these stories represent single acts,
making up Frank as he enters old age.
When you grow
old, as I am, you pretty much live in the accumulations of life anyway. Not that much is happening, except on the
medical front. Better to strip things
down. And where better to start
stripping than the words we choose to express our increasingly rare,
increasingly vagrant thoughts.
It's not true
that as you get older things slide away like molasses off a table top. What is
true is I don't remember some things that well, owing to the fact that I don't
care all that much. I now wear a cheap Swatch watch, but I do sometimes lose
the handle on the day of the month, especially near the end and the beginning,
when I get off-track about "thirty days hath September ... " This, I
believe, is normal and doesn't worry me. It's not as if I put my trousers on
backwards every morning, tie my shoelaces together, and can't find my way to
the mailbox.
And
I was also amused by Frank’s description of the dangers of falling as a senior
citizen. I’ve been warned as well
because one of my so-called “necessary” medications has the side effect of thinning
bones. They even wanted to give me other medication to combat those side
effects, but that one has its own likely side effects (I refused). Pick your
poison I’m told, although as one doctor empathetically told me, “it’s not your
bones that’s gonna get you, it’s something else.” I could not have said it any better than
Frank, though, and reading this book should be required as one enters the final
stage of one’s life. As Bette Davis
said, “growing old is not for sissies.”
Here’s
Frank’s take on it: I'm also concerned
about stepping on a nail, myself And because of something Sally said, I feel a
need to more consciously pick my feet up when I walk-"the gramps
shuffle" being the unmaskable, final-journey approach signal. It'll also
keep me from falling down and busting my ass. What is it about falling?
"He died of a fall." "The poor thing never recovered after his
fall." "He broke his hip in a fall and was never the same."
"Death came relatively quickly after a fall in the back yard." How
fucking far do these people fall? Off of buildings? Over spuming cataracts?
Down manholes? Is it farther to the ground than it used to be? In years gone by
I'd fall on the ice, hop back up, and never think a thought. Now it's a death
sentence. What Sally said to me was "Be careful when you go down those
front steps, sweetheart. The surface isn't regular, so pick your feet up."
Why am I now a walking accident waiting to happen? Why am I more worried about
that than whether there's an afterlife?
He
somewhat reluctantly, but obligingly, goes once a month to visit his ex-wife
(his present wife, Sally, is fine with this) Ann who now lives in cutting edge
senior care center, one in which there is progressive health care, right to the
grave. At Ann’s new home, Carnage Hill (love the name of the place), being sick to death is like a passage on a
cruise ship where you’re up on the captain’s deck, eating with him and possibly
Engelbert Humperdinck, and no one’s getting Legionnaires’ or being cross about
anything. And you never set sail or
arrive anywhere, so there’re no bad surprises or disappointments about the
ports of call being shabby and alienating.
There aren’t any ports of call. This is it.
Ann
get’s under Frank’s skin. And she has a
knack of getting me under her magnifying glass for the sun to bake me a while
before I can exit back home to second-marriage deniability.
He
handles his visits by displaying his “default self.” The Default Self, my answer to all her true-thing issues, is an
expedient that comes along with nothing more than being sixty-eight - the
Default Period of life. Being an essentialist, Ann believes we all have selves,
characters we can't do anything about (but lie). Old Emerson believed the same.
" ... A man should give us a sense of mass ... ," etc. My mass has
simply been deemed deficient. But I believe nothing of the sort. Character,
to me, is one more lie of history and the dramatic arts. In my view, we have
only what we did yesterday, what we do today, and what we might still do. Plus,
whatever we think about all of that. But nothing else - nothing hard or
kernel-like. I've never seen evidence of anything resembling it. In fact I've
seen the opposite: life as teeming and befuddling, followed by the end.
Our move to
Haddam, a return to streets, housing stocks and turbid memories I thought I'd
forever parted with, was like many decisions people my age make: conservative,
reflexive, unadventurous, and comfort-hungry - all posing as their opposite:
novel, spirited, enlightened, a stride into the mystery of life, a bold move
only a reckless few would ever chance. As if I'd decided to move to Nairobi and
open a Gino's. Sadly, we only know well what we've already done.
Indeed,
neighborhoods change and new neighbors are remote….
In the eight
years since Sally and I arrived back from Sea Clift, we haven't much become
acquainted with our neighbors. Very little gabbing over the fence to share a
humorous "W" story. Few if any spontaneous invitations in for a
Heineken. No Super Bowl parties, potlucks, or housewarmings. Next door might be
a Manhattan Project pioneer, Tolstoy's grand-daughter, or John Wayne Gacy. But
you'd hardly know it, and no one seems interested. Neighbors are another
vestige of a bygone time. All of which I'm fine with”
Code
variances have led to such unpredictable changes, especially for Frank’s
neighborhood which has been recodified as a “mixed use” neighborhood, the end of life as we know it. Though my bet is I’ll be in my resting place
before that bad day dawns. If there’s a
spirit of one-ness in my b. ’45 generation, it’s that we all plan to be dead
before the big shit train finds the station…..How these occurrences foretell
changes that’ll eventuate in a Vietnamese massage becoming my new neighbor is
far from clear. But it happens – like
tectonic plates, whose movement you don’t feel ‘til it’s the big one and your
QOL goes away in an afternoon. From my own experience, Amen
to that.
The
last story seems to tie everything together.
It carries the ironic title of “Death of Others” as if it can’t happen
to us, something we all secretly believe, even knowing intellectually it will. If we didn’t hold on to that fantasy, perhaps
we’d go crazy. In this regard, I envy
religious people who actually look forward to the “afterlife.”
In
the mornings as he has his breakfast Frank listens to the local call in radio
station, a program called Yeah? What’s It To You? Most of the discussion lately has been about
the “killer storm.” He enjoys listening to his fellow Haddam citizens, their views and personal life evaluations…as
nutty as they sometimes are. For a man
in retirement, those brief immersions offer a fairly satisfying substitute to
what was once plausible, fully lived life.
He
also reads the local obits to honor the
deceased, but also quietly to take cognizance of how much any life can actually
contain (a lot!), while acknowledging that for any of us a point comes when most
of life’s been lived and there’s much less of it than there used to be, and yet
what’s there is not to be missed or pissed away in a blur.”
On
that radio program he hears the labored voice of Eddie Medley, ex neighbor, and
a Michigan Wolverine alumnus as Frank.
An old friend. A dying
friend. Eddie also leaves a message on
Frank’s answering machine. Something in his voice…frail, but revealing
of an inward-tendingness that spoke of pathos and solitude, irreverence and
unexpected wonder. More the tryer than I'd first thought, but caked over
by illness and time. Even in a depleted state, he seemed to radiate what most
modern friendships never do, in spite of all the time we waste on them: the
chance that something interesting could be imparted, before-the-curtain-sways-shut-and-all-becomes-darkness.
Something about living with just your same ole self all these years, and how
enough was really enough. I didn't know anyone else who thought that. Only me.
And what's more interesting in the world than being agreed with?
Frank
really doesn’t want to see him, a dying man.
He tells him on the phone he’s too busy.
Eddie replies: I’m busy too. Busy getting dead. If you want to catch me live, you better get
over here. Maybe you don’t want to. Maybe you’re that kind of chickenshit. Pancreatic cancer’s gone to my lungs and
belly…It is goddamn efficient. I’ll say
that. They knew how to make cancer when
they made this shit.
At
his advancing age Frank has also been trying
to jettison as many friends as I can, and am frankly surprised more people
don’t do it as a simple and practical means of achieving well-earned,
late-in-the-game clarity. Lived life, especially once you hit adulthood, is
always a matter of superfluity leading on to less-ness Only (in my view) it’s a less-ness that’s as
good as anything that happened before – plus it’s a lot easier.
Although
Frank does volunteer work, reading for the blind and welcoming veterans back home,
he leaves 60 percent of available hours
for the unexpected – a galvanizing call to beneficent action, in this
case. But what I mostly want to do is
nothing I don’t want to do.
Nonetheless, as he has the time for the “unexpected” and he goes to see
his old friend.
He
finally gets to Eddie’s house and is admitted by the hospice worker to the
bedroom. Eddie looks like a skeleton, has trouble even talking, breathing, but
he is trying to tell him something. Frank bends down to listen ’That’s what I’m here for.’ Not literally
true. Eddie may mistake me for the angel
of death, and this moment his last try at coherence. Death makes of everything in life a dream. Eddie reveals an old, dark secret, one impacting
Frank. No spoilers here.
The
take away of this splendid collection of FB stories is if you are planning to
grow old, or if you have already joined our group, this is a primer of what is
in store. But it’s more than the
content, it’s the unique voice of Frank Bascombe, and hopefully there will be
other such works from Ford in the future.
And remember, there’s something to
be said for the good no-nonsense hurricane, to bully life back into perspective.